Relationship Status: Married for Life or Lesbians for real?

By Chineye Dunu A friend of mine was complaining the other day about the incessant raise in lesbianism amongst married women and the fact that some don't even bother to hide it anymore. Well I tried to defend these women saying that maybe he has mistaken the friendly pats and touch as something more. I then decided to do my own research, I could not believe the things I read and heard from different sites and people concerning this issue. I think the most amazing was a friend who told me how she suffered at the hand of a " lesbian lover" according to her, they met while shopping at Ikota shopping centre in Lekki, Lagos. The lady approached her with compliments like "I love your skin it's beautiful, what cream do u use?" thinking nothing of the compliment she answered and they swapped numbers and BB pin so somehow they kept in touch and soon became good friends. After 3 months of talking, seeing and generally hanging out once in a while the lady(Ada) told her she was traveling to buy goods for her shop and asked if she wanted to come along my friend she said she will ask her husband since he already knew Ada after having meet her and her kids a couple of times. After discussing with her husband, her husband said He didn't have enough money and he can only buy her the ticket while she takes care of acquiring the goods with her own funds. Not having so much money she sadly informed Ada that she cannot travel with her as her husband didn't have enough money to give her to buy goods to sell, Ada told her not to worry that she can lend her some money to pay back after she sells her goods. Of course she was ecstatic not knowing what Ada had in stock for her. In Dubai, she could not believe the nice and decent woman she knew wanted to sleep with her as they were sharing a room, Ada told her how she loved her and how her husband was not paying attention to her needs that she had to resort to other women to satisfy her self without being labelled a cheat. My friend said it took her a while to digest all that she heard and was at a loss on what to do thinking if she said No, Ada might kick her out of the hotel room without little or no money she didn't stand a chance on her own, buying some time she said she didn't know the first thing about being a lesbian and that she feels like she is cheating on her husband. Anyway Ada who came prepared told her she will show her the ropes. With a high pile of Adult DVDs of lesbians and Internet sites, my friend knew there was no escape. Anyway according to her she was let off easy on the first night with just heavy petting and an amazing shopping spree the next day to spur her on. When I asked if she did it? She said yes. She then went ahead to tell me that she is not complaining about her husband's skills or anything but that being with Ada was like being with someone who knew her body like your own and also wanted to please her. Even though she said it is not something she wants to do again but it left an indelible mark on her person. This brings me to the question of why women who are supposedly "happily married" sleep with other women? There must be some break down in adequate relationship with their spouse which prompts these women to seek pleasure in the arms of another woman, or is that they were never able to find their sexual inclination before they got married since it was what was expected of them? Whatever the case, I must say that some men need to go back to loving their wives the way they should or just simply find out what her fantasies are and fulfill them before another woman fulfills them for her. Its kind of funny losing your wife to another woman because you could not love her properly right? Thanks. Remember love right, live right!