40ways to know if you are addicted to Love

                               
If you can answer YES to more than a few of the following you are probably a love addict.Remember that love addiction comes in many forms. So even if you don’t answer YES to all of the questions you may still be a love addict.
-You are very needy when it comes to relationships.
-.You fall in love very easily and too quickly.
-.When you fall in love, you can’t stop fantasizing-even to do important things.You can’t help yourself.
-.Sometimes, when you are lonely and looking for companionship you lower your standards and settle for less than you want or deserve.
-.When you are in a relationship,you tend to smother your partner.
-.More than once, you have gotten involved with someone who is unable to commit-hoping he or she will change.
-.Once you have bonded with someone, you can’t let go.
-.When you are attracted to someone,you will ignore all the warning signs that this person is not good enough for you.
- Initial attraction is more important to you than anything else when it comes to love and choosing a partner,falling in love is not an option.
-When you are in love, you trust people who are not trustworthy, the rest of the time you have a hard time trusting people.
-When a relationship ends, you feel your life is over and more than once you have thought about suicide because of a failed relationship.
-You take on more than your share of responsibility for the survival of a relationship.
-Love and relationships are the only things that interest you.
-In some of your relationships,you were the only one in love.
-You are overwhelmed with loneliness when you are not in love or in a relationship.
-You cannot stand being lone.You do not enjoy your own company.
-More than once, you have gotten involved with the wrong person to avoid being lonely.
-You are terrified of never finding someone to love.
-You feel inadequate if, you are not in a relationship.
-You cannot say no when you are in love or if your partner threatens to leave you.
-You try very hard to be who your partner wants you to be.You will do anything to please him or her-even abandon youself(sacrifice what you want, need and value).
-When you are in love, you only see what you want to see, you distort reality to quell anxiety and feed your fantasies.
-You have a high tolerance for suffering in relationships .You are willing to suffer neglect,depression,loneliness,dishonesty-even abuse to avoid the pain of separation, anxiety.(what you feel when you are not with someone you have bonded with).
-More than once,you have carried a torch for someone and it was agonizing.
-You love romance.You have had more than one romantic interest at a time even when it involved dishonesty.
-You stayed with an abusive person.
-Fantasizes about someone you love ,even if he or she is unavailable,are more important to you than meeting someone who is available.
-You are terrified of being abandoned.Even when the slightest rejection feels like abandonment and it makes you feel horrible.
-You chase after people who have rejected you and try desperately to change their minds.
-When you are in love, you are overly possessive and jealous.
-More than once,you have neglected your family or friends because of your relationship.
-You have no impulse control when you are in love.
-You feel an overwhelming need to check up on someone you are in love with.
-More than once,you have spied on someone you are in love with.
-You pursue someone you are in love with even if she or he is with another person.
-If you are part of a love triangle,(three people),You believe all is fair in love and war.You do not walk away.
-Love is the most important thing in the world to you.
-Even if you are not in a relationship,you still fantasize about love all the time-either someone you once loved or the perfect person who is going to come into your life some day.
-As far back as you can remember,you have been preoccupied with love and romantic fantasies.
-You feel powerless when you fall in love as if you are in some kind of trance or under a spell.You lose your ability to make wise decisions.