How to know the DONTS in a relationship

The rules are simple. Not much talk is here.. I numbered them so we don't get tired.. Hope we adhere to them so that we cam smile more often.. Cheers!

-Do not make hurtful comments. Your intent may be for good but the outcome will be unexpected in a bad way.
-Do not be aloof: Being unresponsive is like a loud ‘do not come near,I do not need you’ vibe
-Do not be judgmental,stop thinking you’re way above everyone,humility pays
-Do not be on the offensive for criticism,it should be taken in good faith
-Do not be a complainer, Stop being one! You tend to send your partner running out the door with your attitude
-Do not give solutions when you are needed to be a listening ear! Stop being a know-it-all for pete’s sake and be dependable
-Do not be a know-it-all
-Do not be commanding,stop imposing your demands on others.
-Do not be inconsistent with your words. Always keep to your promises or decisions
-Do not always be on a mind trip,always be present in conversations and stop being absent mindedo